Monday, March 17, 2008

Waiting & Interview Questions

Waiting gets harder when there is less to do.  Last week, I gave my final presentation and now I just have to write a pretty simple 10 page paper due Friday and I will be completely done.  It's so hard to make plans to do anything when everything depends on the unknown.  Simple things like my phone died today.  I want to get a new phone but I don't want to start a new plan just to have to pay the cancellation fee in a few months should we get the opportunity to move to London.  We want to plan our honeymoon but that is on hold as well.  If he gets in we'll do a week or so somewhere really nice.  If not, we'll take a longer vacation with the comfort of knowing we can afford to do so.  Plus I just really really REALLY want to know.  I'm impatient that way.

We finally went over the interview in detail today to try to figure out what kind of impression he made and whether or not it's a good indication of the final decision.  Basically the interview lasted 1.5 hours.  The interviewer talked a bit about his industry in the beginning and asked Mr. Baby if he had any questions.  He had about three questions (he googled the interviewer a few nights before so he already had a few questions in mind).  Next, the interviewer told him to relax and said that the purpose of the interview was to select applicants in not out.  Then, he began asking questions.  Mr. Baby says it was all very conversational and comfortable.  Almost every single question was exactly or similar to the questions that I asked him in a mock interview--I made a list of 30 questions based on web searches and added a few spontaneous questions to follow-up on some points he made (think I discovered a new talent-I'm a great mock interviewer!).  Next they did the brief presentation which was basically the same question that everyone seems to post about the decision to fire an employee because of comments on a social networking site.  We also did this in the mock interview so he had some idea of what he wanted to say.  Last they talked about LBS.  The interviewer gave lots of insight on the pros and cons of LBS and gave some personal advice about what Mr. Baby should focus on once there.  In the end the interviewer encouraged him to keep in touch and to feel free to contact him if he had any questions.  Overall, Mr. Baby thinks he made a pretty good impression and felt confident when he came home from the interview.  So confident, in fact, I was treated to a romantic dinner at our fav fusion restaurant in Hollywood :)  That being said, I think the wait has dampened his confidence some.  Realizing how small the class is, accepting the fact that the applicant pool is probably very competitive, dealing with the lack of contact from the other two schools he's waiting to hear from.  It's so very hard to try to keep spirits up and find ways to make it through the waiting.  

Meanwhile I take some comfort in preparing for the move just in case.  I've scoped out apartments to get an idea of how much we can expect to pay in rent, looked for job opportunities, and best of all met with my graduate advisor who gave me a few contacts in London to help with my possible job search.  I've looked at how the health insurance works there, made list of the places I would like to travel to should we live there, and found out about what we will need to do to get our cat there safely.  Phew!  I don't know what else to plan/stress for!  I know that everything will change regardless of the many plans I make, but it helps me to sleep at night knowing that I've already started the knowledge gathering process.  Ick.  What am I going to do with all of my spare time once that last paper is complete?

Thursday, March 6, 2008

Politics

I'm exhausted by the dem primary.  So sad.  Oversaturated.  I just don't care anymore.  I still favor Obama, but I worry too much.  He would be under constant scrutiny and if he forgot to tie his shoe one morning it would be evidence of his "lack of experience".  Clinton just keeps getting worse.  There is no hope.  Politicians.  Suck.  Hard.  I'm over it.  Hopefully I'll snap out of it by November and be able to feel something for these people again.  Ick.  

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

:)

The interview!!! Ack, it's all so exciting.  Found more practice questions for him and added a few of my own just to throw him off a bit.  It's all so fun and I'm so proud of him :)  I hope that he is enjoying this experience to the fullest because I know for sure that I truly enjoy watching him go after something that he really wants with full energy! 

Okay, enough for today, must get back to writing for a grade...

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Too much...

Frustration, exhaustion, boredom, nerves, and excitement.  I have experienced all of these emotions in one three-day weekend.

First the frustration.  Only two more weeks of my masters degree to go and I'm stuck in one of the worst groups in history.  There are six of us and three of us are absolute shit-heads.  Yes.  Shit-heads.  I bit my tongue for as long as possible, tried to play nice and be polite, but then one of them walks into a meeting with an attitude the size of Texas talking about the quality of her input and I just couldn't do it anymore.  Here's the thing.  I don't need this class to graduate.  I've already taken all the credits I need and have a pretty good GPA and time to change the status of this class from letter grade to pass/fail so that it won't impact anything at all.  She, on the other hand, needs this and instead fixing all of her crappy amateur work I could have just submitted her parts as is and let the group fail.  It's not like we didn't give her the opportunity to fix it.  She just decided to stay up on her high horse and defend her work like an idiot so that we had no choice but to make the changes ourselves.  Ugh!  

Because of this frustration, I decided to take a much needed girl's night with my breastfriend and drink a bottle of champagne and watch bad tv all night.  Woke up to pancakes and a headache the next morning.  Came home full of intentions to get back to work, but took a shower and ended in falling asleep wrapped in a towel instead until knight in shining armor came home.

Once again tried to get some work for my job done but it is incredibly boring and I just could not force myself to do it.  

Knight in shining armor, meanwhile, has set the date for his LBS interview!  Nervous.  I researched a few sites for him to find some common and not-so-common interview questions for a mock interview.  He has made it through two mock interviews thus far and I'm so proud of him.  He doesn't like to practice with me because I have the tendency to smile and beam with pride when I listen to his thoughtful answers.  Such character.  This is why I'm marrying him.

He finally decided on a suit and it is gorgeous.  Excited!  I don't think I've ever been this ga-ga over a man in a suit before.  I've seen him in suits before, no doubt, but this one is just so well made, excellent fabric, and tailored just right.  He looks drop dead gorgeous in it.  Due to the unbelievable sexiness of him in his suit, we have decided to make plans for a nice dinner to follow his interview.  I can't wait to have him all to myself and wrapped up so nicely on top of it all.

Back to my boring work...

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Wharton...sigh of relief!

Wharton released mid-decisions this afternoon and it's a no for lover-boy. I'm not that disappointed. Not at all really. After having the possibility of moving to London dangled right in front of me I refuse to settle for Philadelphia. I'm not quite sure how he is going to take it though. I hope it's not too bad. He really liked the program there and what seemed to be a nice group of students. Out of all of the schools he applied to, the Wharton Partner's Club was ranked the lowest on my list. I couldn't get much info from their website as it was out of date and kind of poorly set up. In other words, our feelings about this school vary greatly and since I did agree that he could apply there and I would move with him if he got in I tried my best to get excited about the possibility of living there. The hardest thing now is waiting for the final decision from London and interview decisions from H and S.

Oh well, I guess I should try to prepare myself for his reaction when he comes home from work...

Monday, February 11, 2008

Perfect Day...Invite!

I knew today would be a good day the moment I got out of bed. I woke up late and lounged around studying my very last midterm. I knew the material so decided to spend the rest of morning taking a long shower and playing with our cat. Checked the weather and smiled to see a promise of 75 degree weather. Yes, a good day indeed. I got to campus early, had no trouble finding a parking space and headed inside to take the exam. Exam was scheduled for 1 hour, followed by a movie. I finished the exam in approximately 20 minutes and left the class to grab a snack while I waited for everyone else to finish so that we could watch the movie. Randomly decided to check my text messages and what do I see?

A message from Baby #2: I got LBS interview :)

Hoo-freaking-ray!!! I'm so excited, proud, anxious, and happy for him. I know that he has been checking his email everyday waiting for a sign and talking himself out of his potential in the last week so this was very much necessary. Ahhhh! Off to read all about LBS and living in London again :)

Sunday, February 10, 2008

A sad life...

This week has not been so great.  Just kind of boring overall.  Have my only exam of the quarter coming up on Monday and although it's 2am on Sunday morning I just can't bring myself to study. This unbearable feeling of misery.  I must figure out how to snap out of this.  It has lingered for far too long and this last week it has peaked.  Ick.

The one good thing about this week is that I have not obsessed about the man's b-school apps at all.  Still no invites but his "whatever will be, will be" attitude about the situation has finally rubbed off on me.  Now I'm left to deal with my own shit and I gotta say obsessing over his shit was a hell of a lot more fun.  And now I'm cursing.  Great.

Hmmmm...don't have much else to say :(